Like many other sports fans, I watched the Heisman ceremony last weekend and was very impressed with all three candidates. They were all great ambassadors for sports and any one of them would have been a deserving winner. However, it was the response to a question by the eventual winner, Sam Bradford that caught my attention. The question was “how were you able to be so accurate in your passing, completing over 70 percent of your passes, this year? His response was “I worked on my technique and practiced it over and over”.
This response immediately brought back a life changing moment I had the opportunity to share with my daughter, Christina. It happened shortly after she made the decision to leave her successful gymnastics "career" and take up golf. We had been to the range a few times and she was doing pretty well. However, I was still a little skeptical she would stick with it. OK, I was very skeptical. My daughter was/(is) very social and loved the talk. These were not the traits I would expect to see as enhancers to becoming a successful golfer. Regardless, I was pleased that she wanted to try her hand at the game, so I encouraged her.
The moment happened when we were on a vacation in Florida. I noticed that the PGA pro at the course we were playing was filming a lesson. I asked her if she would be interested in getting an experts opinion on her potential and also receive a video of her lesson that she could keep. She was so excited. We set up the lesson for the next day.
When we arrived at the lesson, I immediately knew I was in for something special. Gary, the PGA pro made a special connection with Christina. It was obvious that he cared. Our lesson was for a half hour, but that didn't matter. He was working with a kid that showed some potential and a passion for the game. The lesson lasted for two hours and he never looked at his watch. My daughter had found one of her mentors.
The moment happened about half way through the lesson. Christina was hitting shots and Gary was taping. All of the sudden, he stopped and asked her to come over and view the tape. He asked her what caught her eye. She started reciting the things he had mentioned were wrong in her swing. He asked her to look past herself in the frame and look at the background. What we noticed was a group of “golfers” hitting balls with some of very bad swings. Balls were going everywhere but straight. It was actually very funny.
Now for the lesson:
Gary informed Christina that practice without a purpose was a waste of time. It is not the quantity of practice as much as it is the quality of practice. Many years ago, I read the definition of insanity is doing the same things we have always done and expecting different results. Exactly! Here was the perfect example. The members of this course were primarily very successful retired business men, but here they were paying money to practice a flawed golf swing. They could have just as easily have spent the money to go to a PGA professional to correct their swing.
My takeaways from this lesson are the following:
- If you are going to take up a new interest, find a mentor or professional in the field to assist in shortening the learning curve and eliminating bad habits at the beginning.
- As you proceed down the learning curve, stay in touch with that mentor to assure that you stay on the path to success.
- Practice with a purpose. In the work environment, I see so many people that remind me of the golfers on the range. They come in and do today just what they did the day before.
- Continually evaluate your performance and look for ways to improve.
- Practice, practice, practice. Winners work hard when nobody is watching in order to perform when they are. When asked if Christina could be a good competitive golfer, Gary's response was it depends on how much she wants it and how hard she works.
- Pay it forward. My daughter has a life long friend that has her best interest at heart. It is her responsibility to Gary and the game to pass on the knowledge.
Through the implementation of these takeaways, you will greatly increase your chances of staying in the groove.